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Going to a Sex Club

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Love & Lust the Podcast Episode 48- What going to a sex club is actually like. 

Love & Lust is a podcast about sex and relationships. For the full interview about sex clubs, please click the links above. Read the interview by Ana Lefebvre below. 

Ana- What is a sex club?

 

This is coming from a person who has never experienced a sex club in my life. This is purely for the beginners out there, my initial impression- it’s really intimidating. You don’t know really what to expect, but it’s really just a liberating free-for-all place as far as like, what can be done, what you can do, what you can explore, exhibitionism, dungeons, playroom …anything.

 

Ana- Can you go by yourself or do you have to go with people?

 

In the one primarily here, it is really just for couples. They do their pricing that way, so it’s cheaper for a couple to go in. If you’re a single woman, you can go in, and it’s like $20, but if youre a single man, it’s like $200, and then it’s really just a place where swingers can go ahead and explore other body types or other types of different people you wouldn’t naturally see in your own life.

 

Ana- If you are single and you’re going by yourself, is there an opportunity to meet up with other people?

There’s an opportunity to meet new people in a sex club as a single woman that I saw, but if youre a single man, they do like a 10 to 1 ratio- so for every 10 couples that go in, one single male can go in. It is more crowded with females. 

 

Ana- How do you find a sex club?

I found it through word of mouth, but if youre on FetLife or anything like that, those are really the people that are in the know. 

 

Ana- Did you have to sign up for different “play” rooms in the sex club you attended?

No. You can utilize any of the rooms that are there on the premises. They have a hotel room that you can stay in. They have different sex-themed rooms in the sex club and people will go directly just for those rooms, but anyways, going into it as a person that never really understood what Kinks I liked, I didn’t know which room to go to. In the dungeon, you just walked in and it’s not really like anybody’s regulating it. You just kind of going in, you’re observing and then you can jump in. It’s not like you have to sign up or anything like that. You just start partaking. 

 

Ana- Are there people that walk around that are a part of the club that watch and make sure that everything is going according to the agreement of the, I am going to call them players of, the players in the club.

 

Yes, so they do have employees. It’s really just one of the cleanest places, I’ve ever been to. They have clean towels for you, clean sheets for you all that stuff, to make sure that everything is as clean as possible.

 

Ana- How big was it? Ikea big or Chilis big?

 

It’s Ikea big. They have 130 rooms from what I remember and that’s just for people to stay on-premises. They have a nightclub. They have an outdoor area with a pool and jacuzzi and outdoor bars. 

 

Ana- Let’s talk about cell phones. What’s the rule with cell phones?

 

So you’re not supposed to have it on you. You’re not allowed to have your cell phone to take pictures and what happens there stays there because you have so many different people from all walks of life that come in there.

 

Ana- What about condoms?

 

You have to supply your own, definitely, if you are going to play with any other partners or whatever, definitely bring extra. They have lockers there to where you can go ahead and load up your ammo.

 

Ana- Do you have any advice for men and for women when they go to the sex club for the very first time.

 

I want to say, just be confident in what you have and what youre doing, because obviously, everybody’s going to be different sizes and have different capabilities. Women be confident! You are considered a queen in this environment. Explore. You never know what’s out there for you and what you may like.

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About the Publisher Ana Lefebvre

“I’ve always been a positively passionate person. Even when I was younger, I would find something positive in any task that I was doing and I would do it with pride. If it was washing dishes, I was going to be the best and fastest dishwasher out of all of my siblings.” – Ana Lefebvre  

By the age of 6, I had a bunch of trophies, accolades and my first publication.

By the age of 18 I was a Sophomore in college. 

I was 25 when I started working for myself. The fire to work for myself was actually put in place since I couldn’t work my corporate job as a Marketing Director and be an Actress. 

I first started My Unbounded Life, The Magazine for the Millennials, in 2017. I had started it off humbly, as a magazine for women. It was beauty-based and to be honest, it was not that much fun. Over the year, I realized I wanted to just have fun. I wanted to create something that others have not done so here we are. Not  only a magazine for everyone, but a minority-based magazine for everyone. 

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I’ve always had a passion for giving relationship advice. I was the one everyone ran to for advice about all kinds of relationships. Over the years, I have had various blogs giving relationship advice, but I always wanted to do a podcast and in 2020, l finally had the time. 

My podcast turned 1 years old on May 26 and what a journey it has been. 

I pride myself in being transparent on giving advice that is not your stereotypical standard relationship advice. My mission is to unite both men and women by having a platform that gives advice that can resonate to both.

Here are a couple of my favorite episodes from over the year.

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I’ve always been someone with a huge vision.

I was recently asked, what do you want out of life, what is your ultimate goal. I stopped and pondered for a second and realized that there is no ultimate goal because I have so many goals. The feeling of satisfaction may never reach me, because I am not the type to stop…at least for right now. 

I decided to start off this new section of the Magazine with a fantasy section. Photos are cool. Taking them is cool, but repetition for me is boring. 

I’ve always liked dress-up. I’ve always been my own superhero. I’ve been both the protagonist and antagonist in my personal story book. 

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One person’s definition of hero is another person’s definition of villain. 

I hope you enjoy this magazine and all that will come from it. I am hoping to unite communities. I don’t want to be another online magazine… how boring. 

My name is Ana Lefebvre and if you like this magazine, please comment below and share.

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When you have extra money (money you can afford to lose) you can do several things: spend it, save it or flip it. Flipping it is an uncouth way of saying investing. It is the end result. 

There are several ways to invest money. Retirement Plans, Stocks, CD, etc. We will begin by talking about stock investments.

Many people know the basics of investing stocks, but In a Forbes article published in 2020 it depicts that , Most Americans Don’t Have A Real Stake In The Stock Market .

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This is Love and Lust’s first money episode. It’s all related… Money. Sex. Power so we are going to talk about it. I hope that all of Love and Lust’s Listeners listen to this episode as it is a free insight into investing.

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How much should you invest?

There is not a cookie cutter answer. It is based off your  income and profit/loss margin-  Listen to the Podcast For More Answers.  -and Investing in what you can lose.

Also in the Podcast:

Whats apps you can use to help you invest.

Residual Income.

Paying off credit cards vs. investing.

Is it smart to invest rent money or use rent money towards investments?

Making decisions based on finances.

Do you need a two-person household to live?

What is a financial Emergency Fund and what should it consist of. 

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In Episode 31 of Love and Lust, The Podcast, Ana Lefebvre and Camille Corbett discuss social issues such as Misogyny in Today’s Society.

Misogyny is the dislike of women, contempt of women, or prejudice against women. Just like systematic racism, misogyny has been going on for so long that many people spread it without a second thought.

Love and Lust, The Podcast, has a mission to highlight and bring attention to these social issues. Hopefully after listening to Episode 31 people can start to recognize when they are being misogynistic and news flash, women can be misogynistic too. 

Sexism occurs so vastly that everyone must be very aware of what misogyny is and how to stop it. I have found out that a lot of people are unconscious of their Misogynist behavior. Sweetie and Doja Cat came out with a song recently, called Best Friend, where they called out the “fake-woke” men that are actually misogynistic. If you are unaware if you are a misogynist please click here.

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I know everyone has heard of the words Chakras and Oras, but what are they really? Do they connect with us sexually?

In this special episode of Love and Lust, Ana Lefebvre and her guest, Spiritual Healer Michelle, discuss Sex as a Spiritual Energy Exchange and Sexual Healing. Have you ever wondered why you might have mysteriously fell for someone in the romantic sense? Why someone has a hold on you that can not be explained with words? Listen to this Episode as Ana and Michelle discuss the power of being spiritually aligned to have the best bedroom life. 

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About Ana Lefebvre
Ana Lefebvre
Actress/Writer/Podcaster/Business Owner
Ana Lefebvre knows how hard relationships are, especially in our new normal. Most relationship advice is outdated and not modernized and also targeted for one sex/gender. Ana has created Love and Lust to create a safe space to talk about relationships united, unfiltered and uncut. Ana is a published author and writer for My Unbounded Life.
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Light Worker/Clairvoyant
Michelle is a light worker. She is a clairvoyant that works with Angels and guides. She is also am a Reiki practitioner. She has dedicated her life to becoming a healer and guide for others. Visit her website: https://www.vibeandglow.com/ .