Pleasure Room Ideas

Pleasure Room Ideas

Pleasure Room Ideas
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So you would like to or are thinking about enhancing your sex life by making a sex room or pleasure room. Here are 10 pleasure room ideas that will work for any room.

1. Most pleasure rooms have a dark and sexy ambiance, so start with the bedding.  

Silk sheets are super sexy, but not practical. Stick with the cotton so you can use the sheets for your pleasure room all year long.

2. Lighting for your Pleasure Room

Besides candles, mood lighting for your sex room is a must. We love practical items, here at My Unbounded Life, so here is an easy to use device that you can use for other mood lighting when needed. Also, if you do not want to paint your walls a sexy color like a deep red or even black, this will help create the illusion.

3. What is a pleasure room without a love swing? 

It provides additional support for your sex and holds up to 300 lbs. Check out the installation directions. It is highly rated.

4. Toys

What is a pleasure room without toys? There are many to choose from and many different types of kinks out there. This is one of the most popular ones on today’s market. 

5. Oils

Oils allow for the sensual touch and pleasure. Make sure you have items for all of your senses in your sex room. 

 

5. Sensual smells

Remember to have something for all of your senses, do not neglect the nose. Include aromatherapy. If you are using candles, just make sure you have it in a safe place. 

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6. Use a wedge pillow to enhance certain positions

This is a pleasure room must! You will be surprised what a simple wedge pillow will do.

7. Mirrors

Make sure you have mirrors placed in optimal areas for your sex room. Remember to include all scenes. 

8. Lubrication

We are not doing ordinary love in this room, so make sure you have fun with edible lubrication. Here is a highly rated one from Amazon, make sure to check the reviews first and always test the product to make sure you and your lover(s) are not allergic. 

9. Have sexy wall art

 

10. Floor pillows 

Yes you can add appropriate furniture, like a chase but nothing scream comfort like pillows. Buy a ton. You can always throw a dark colored blanket over it.

Well there you go folks. Those are our top 10 pleasure room ideas. Now you know how to make a pleasure room. Have fun with it and let us know how it goes.

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Update:

According to the police report, a call to 911 was made on Thursday, May 5, 2022, by a woman in Samuel’s apartment. She told officers that Samuels had complained about chest pain and collapsed. She then called 911.

Samuels was taken to Piedmont Hospital where he passed away, police said. 

 

5.5.22

The internet is in a debate after the news of the self proclaimed relationship guru, and image consultant, Kevin Samuels, has passed away. 

Kevin Samuels was known for his controversial topics and views on women and dating. He also spoke to men, but his unapologetic and harsh opinion on women is what brought him fame. The influencer’s radical content caught the attention over millions of viewers with his YouTube having 1.42M subscribers.

Kevin’s fans and critics are in a debate over the validity of his death and also the non-mourning behavior that is appearing on Twitter. 

Kevin was 56 years of age.

Story is developing. 

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OPINION
BY NINA CHILDS

Depending on who you talk to…today is a sad day. If you ask that toxic dude that you know that objectifies women, sees them as objects to be owned and controlled and thinks he deserves a submissive woman who adores him even though he’s future 2.0 then yes, today is a sad day as word on the wire is that Kevin Samuels, the controversial youtube “relationship guru” has passed away at the age of 56. If you ask 90% of black women in America….it’s Thursday. I know, I know…I’m a heartless bitch. But not actually. I believe in having reverence for life. I respect the flesh while it’s living and breathing. Once it’s passed it passed, and i like several other hundreds of thousands of black women have sat and watched the clips of Kevin Samuels sitting behind his pc with his glasses and tailored suit, reading women to filth, calling them 6’s because they have natural faces and bodies, and telling them they will never find love because they’re old, or out of shape or single mothers. None of which is true by the way. If you are like so many of the toxic niggerly bears that subscribe to his ideology of hatred disguised as “unsugar-coated truths” then you think we lost an icon. In actually he was divisive and a dream killer.I have never, ever,ever sat through 1 single Kevin Samuels live stream. I find no joy or enjoyment in watching people get torn down for the sake of entertainment. I have like so many saw the cliffs notes and I don’t see any of this as a loss. I’m not sorry about death ever. It’s a part of life.

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how to start a conversation on a dating app

How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

how to start a conversation on a dating app
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Oh, dating apps. Do you love or hate them?

Regardless of your feelings about them, it is the most contemporary way to date in the current millennial culture. 

This guide will help you regarding how to start your conversation when you are dating online. An intriguing one liner is what you need initially. But how to prose the perfect initial statement?

Let’s find out a few methods that you can use for starting a conversation on a dating app.

You can start the conversation with a question

Think of an interesting question to ask. I have a friend that is a pro on these apps. He has 5-7 pictures on either tinder or bumble and he starts his conversations depending on the picture that the person clicked on. If it is an outdoorsy picture, he talks about something pertaining to being outside. If it is a formal picture, he curates his initial question, well formally.

If it is a food picture, then talk about food. Do you see where I am going here?

It can be a would you rather related question or you can go for the question that is a little bit more quirky to give an edge to the conversation. Just don’t overdo it and ask something that is completely random and not individualized. 

You can also ask for recommendations

Actually read their bio and look at their pictures. There is a difference between coming off as observant versus stalkerish. Observe a fact about them and ask for a recommendation leaning towards that. This is an incredibly easy way to start a conversation on a dating app. 

Start with a fact about yourself

You can start with a fact about yourself and leave room for discussion, by asking a question at the end about it. Once again, curate towards the person. Don’t open with a random fact just about yourself. Tie yourself and the person together. 

For example, if I saw a picture of them in Chicago I would say something like:

“I’ve never been to Chicago, what would be something you recommend doing if I go.”

Make sure you are sincere in your questions. This can be the perfect icebreaker to start with and also, an easy way to begin a conversation. 

Complement their bio

If you find something interesting in their bio, use it as an opportunity to break the ice and start a conversation with the other person. Once again, make sure you leave it open-ended.

Do not be sugar-sweet

Be yourself and do not overdo it. When you are being a little too extra (not yourself)  it can be seen as a red flag. Be nice and be real. Being authentic to yourself is what matters the most. 

Ask them questions about their goals 

Asking about their future may be too ambitious, but asking for their goals is different. When you are starting to talk to someone it is important that you understand what they want, but don’t push it. Live in the moment a bit. It will help you to align yourself with them and you will know if you are on the same page or not.

It will give you more ideas regarding what to talk about and what not to talk about. 

Once again, read the bio. They may not be on the dating app for the same reasons that you are on it and do not be too intense. Do not ask something that is uncomfortable. “Where do you see yourself in five years?”- is way too much. Instead, ask them about something that is not so far out. 

Spark the chemistry with quirky questions and do not rush things

If you are moving too fast it might deter the other person; therefore, it is best that you keep it slow but start with quirky conversation starters initially.

Think of something that is creative and lighthearted. When you both are comfortable with each other, it is easier to learn about the other person.

Wondering what to start with?

Let me help you out with a few ways to start a conversation on a dating app:

  • You can ask them about their photos.
  • You can ask them if there are places that they want to visit. I would ask this if you find photos regarding travel on their profile, or something about traveling in their description. In the initial conversation, do not ask random questions. It is more sincere when you ask a question pertaining to them. 
  • You can ask them about their work and their job and open the floor to discussing yours. Work can be a great conversation starter.
  • You can talk about your favorite music or their favorite singer. You can discuss movies that you like and the books that you’ve read. Food is also a great conversation starter. Apps like Tinder also have an option to list your favorite Spotify songs. Once again, I can not stress this enough, initially discuss things that pertain to them. 

Try not to be a conversation killer and keep your conversation open-ended.

Caution:

I would be careful of the over-the-top compliments at the beginning of the conversation because they can come off insincere.

Make sure that you are not making fun of yourself because it might seem self-deprecating and show a lack of confidence.

Make sure you are approachable. When you are approachable and you are asking open ended questions, you are allowing room for a conversation. 

Also, check the app. Do not get on and message people only to respond days later. If you want to be successful on the app then you need to be proactive on the dating app. 

What Series to Watch on Netflix this Month?

What Series to Watch on Netflix this Month?

What Series to Watch on Netflix this Month?

Have a bit of extra time this month? Are you planning to binge-watch a lot of Netflix series that you have been missing out on? Well, not to worry because we have created the perfect watchlist for you that you must take a look at. We have compiled a few of the options for the Netflix featured series that are absolutely perfect for spending your month binge-watching on some extremely amazing series.

Take a look below and find out some of the best series to watch on netflix this month. 

Midnight Mass

Just in time for Autumn. Midnight Mass is a limited series to watch on Netflix. Genre: Drama; Supernatural; Horror. “The description is : The arrival of a charismatic priest brings miracles, mysteries and renewed religious fervour to a dying town.”

Evil has come into a dying town in the form of “miraculous events”. Some do not consider it a horror, but a “intelligent religious drama”. 

Schitt’s Creek 

This is the story of the Rose family that was formerly rich and then had to touch the ground because of an uncertain incident. The accent of Moira Rose, the spirit of Johnny Rose, the wardrobe of David Rose, and the vibrancy of Alexis Rose. 

This show having a vast range of talent combined with sweet and simple comedy, will be the perfect mood buster and can be the ideal show that you can watch every day. It is the kind of show that will keep you hooked, and you will definitely want to keep watching it every now and then.

Bridgerton

This is the true Royal show that has the perfect essence of royalty with the little gossip fun from the letters written by Lady whistle down. It is the kind of show that has the Perfect Combination of romance and thrill. 

People have been hooked to the show because of the British accent, along with the delicacy of the women in the show.

Friends

Friends are an evergreen show, and if you have not watched it already, what are you waiting for? Start watching it right now. It is the perfect essence of comedy combined with romance and the true meaning of friendship. This group of 6 people will make your day anytime, anywhere. It is the kind of show that you will watch again and again but will never get bored with—the show that keeps you hooked toward and whenever you get overwhelmed.

Special

Another great show for the people who are the true gem of the people. This show is about people with any disability but showcasing how they are still winning in life. The main character of the show is the true inspiration.

Haunting of the Hill House

One of the best horror series that you will find on Netflix is this show named Haunting of the hill house. It has the perfect blend of thrill combined with horror offering you a perfect experience. It may be a bit too intense at some points. But it is definitely worth watching.

Never Have I Ever

If you are planning to watch something related to teen drama, this show named never have I ever is the best show to watch. With two seasons, this one has been a great show that people are loving. It is a story that revolves around an Indian girl trying to get a boyfriend. It’s not just about getting a boyfriend, but it is a lot more and provides you with a good amount of soul food and life lessons.

Sex Education 

Another show that it is a perfect choice if you are looking for team drama combined with all the sex information that you need. It is the kind of show that will provide you with all the fun that you need with a lot of good information and a binge-worthy show that you will definitely enjoy.

Sweet Tooth

Do you love baking and cooking? Do you have a sweet tooth and want to enjoy baking some exemplary desserts, well, a sweet tooth with definitely hook you towards it. 

It is a show that has several seasons, and you will definitely enjoy the competition of making the best dessert. It has a lot of variety that you will love to watch. People who love cooking and eating good food will definitely enjoy watching this exceptional so.

Orange Is the New Black

One of our last recommendations is to watch Orange Is the New Black. It is one of the oldest series with a lot of seasons, but it is definitely worth watching. With the perfect drama and the bit of The Darkside, this series is worth watching. Not only it will provide you with a good amount of insight regarding the life inside prison for women, but it will also tell you a lot more about the issues of the women. It is a must-watch show if you have not watched it already.

Long Distance Relationship Quotes

Inspiring Long Distance Relationship Quotes

Relationships, in general, can be complicated and if it is a long distance relationship, it may be more difficult than the traditional relationship. It is trust and love that keeps long distance relationships going. When you step into a long distance relationship, you began to understand the importance of spending time together and cherishing each moment.

Here are some long distance relationship quotes.

Long Distance Relationship Quotes

“In true love the smallest distance is too great and the greatest distance can be bridged.” – Hans Nouwens

long distance relationship quotes – Hans Nouwens

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it sure makes the rest of you lonely.”

 – Charles M. Schulz

relationship quotes – Charles M. Schulz

Khalil Gibran once wrote that

“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

long distance relationship quotes ― Donna Lynn Hope

Another amazing long distance relationship quotes by Meghan Daum is:

“Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It’s for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough.”

A deep quote by Doug Fetherling is: 

“Your absence has not taught me how to be alone; it has merely shown me that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”

long distance relationship quotes -Doug Fetherling

These are some of the most famous and most heart-touching long distance relationship quotes. Even in long distance relationships you can feel that you are with someone even when you are miles apart. 

Communication is the key to any relationship, especially when it is a long distance relationship. Communication becomes one major factor when you are unable to physically see each other every day or even every few weeks. 

The long distance relationship, with appropriate communication and trust combined with support from both sides, can absolutely work.

Remember that even when you are apart from each other, you can still be together because of the love and the relationship that you have.

Donna Hope once said that.

“I don’t cry because we’ve been separated by distance, and for a matter of years. Why? Because for as long as we share the same sky and breathe the same air, we’re still together.”

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When you are in a long distance relationship, you have to understand the meaning of being together and being faithful. When there is no faith, there is no relationship at all. 

Winnie the Pooh said; 

How lucky what someone who has someone that makes saying goodbye so difficult.”

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Love has to be strong enough to stand the distance.

Are you the toxic one in relationships

Are you the Toxic One in Your Relationships?

“The truth is that most of us have at least one toxic trait that we need to work on.”  
Sometimes we are stuck in our own way. Sometimes we have been single for so long that we forget that we have to compromise when we get into a new relationship, and we end up bringing that single mentally into it. Sometimes we are just a$$holes that are lucky to have someone put up with us :). 

Vacations for small business owners

Vacations for Small Business Owners

Vacations for small business owners

How to Take a Self-Care Getaway on a Budget

Small business owners experience a lot of stress — and the last year has been particularly overwhelming. But did you know that taking a vacation may be just the ticket to combating entrepreneurial anxiety? When you’re running a company, it can be hard to get away, but studies show that taking time off to explore a new place offers an array of health benefits.

Of course, it costs money to take a trip — but it doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg. Wherever you’re planning to travel, if you get familiar with a few tips and tricks of the travel world, your journey doesn’t have to break the bank. Consider this great advice from My Unbounded Life.

Make time to take a break

Little is more miserable than planning a break from the day-to-day details of running a business and spending the entire time in front of a computer. Instead of setting yourself up for a working vacation, set yourself up for a true vacation with time-saving, productivity-focused strategies. There are plenty of little things you can do to reduce the amount of time you spend on everyday tasks, and as a result, you can savor the time you spend away from the office.

Your annual report is a great example. All California businesses need to file one, but just because it’s something you’re required to file doesn’t mean you need to be the one doing all the work. Partnering with an online service like ZenBusiness is a great way to cut down on the amount of time and energy this obligation requires. They will set up a personalized dashboard for your company where your information is gathered and organized. Then, when the time comes, they will file the report on your behalf. It’s just one of the many tools and services you can lean on to make your work life easier and more efficient, so you can snag a well-deserved getaway now and then. 

Travel on the right flights

One of the best strategies for scoring affordable flights is to simply choose the least popular trips. A red-eye flight can save hundreds of dollars, and if you look into frequent flyer miles, you can reap even more savings. Choosing a flight that may be less comfortable and convenient will also pay off big for your pocketbook. And if you can be flexible with your travel dates, you can stretch those dollars even further.

On the road

Travel can be stressful, but the last thing you need to worry about is your trip’s impact on your budget. Start your travels off in the right direction with a little advanced planning. When your trip requires ground transportation, a car rental company like Enterprise is your one-stop shop for car rental services. You can get the lowest prices on a vast selection of vehicles that will get you where you need to go in style.

Where to stay

For accommodations, you’ll likely find comparable rates between short-term rentals and hotels in many destinations. When making your choice, ask yourself a few questions. First, consider the nature of your trip and what’s most important for your stay. Is it the novelty of sleeping in a secluded tiny house nestled by a quiet river, or is it the reliability of guaranteed service in the heart of the city? Are you traveling with children or flying solo? Whether you require a single room or an entire home, you can save cash by having clarity about your accommodation needs. One option is to look for hotel deals on sites like Groupon and Priceline. 

If you decide to book a hotel, pick one outside of the center of town. You’ll pay more for the convenience. Or, if you go with a vacation rental, you can save money on food by cooking meals in a fully stocked kitchen.

Talk with the locals

When you’re feeling adventurous, you can collect valuable advice from local residents and ask for info on things to do in town, where to eat, where to shop, and even where to stay. This could lead down an interesting path that you wouldn’t have otherwise followed while saving big. Many people are happy to share local tips if you just ask politely.

Discover free activities and events

There’s a wealth of free and low-cost activities and events available year-round in virtually any place you’d want to go. City Parks Departments offer beautifully tended green spaces with events like concerts, movie screenings (pack a picnic in a travel-friendly cooler for an inexpensive meal), and other fun entertainment for the whole family. Find playgrounds to delight the kiddos or sit and people-watch. Even just taking a quiet stroll through a park that’s new to you can be an uplifting activity full of discovery. If the weather isn’t agreeable to an outdoor trip, look for a library or museum to visit. Find free days at the art museum and enjoy the dose of culture and creativity.

It’s important to take time away from your small business, but in both your professional and personal lives, saving money is always a welcome endeavor. Plan your trip with the above tips for an unforgettable experience.

For more great advice on living a life without limits, keep up with the My Unbounded Life blog.

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Father's Day Gift Guide

Father’s Day Gift Guide

Father's Day Gift Guide

Getting a gift for dad can be a little difficult. When you are planning your Father’s Day Gift, try to research what he may like. Traditional Father’s Day Gifts are cool, but why don’t you try to be a little creative. This Father’s Day, why don’t you try out something different that will also spark his interest. Choose quality Father’s Day gift options that will not only make him happy but also make him feel a special.

If you are having trouble finding the perfect gift, don’t worry we have the perfect Father’s Day Gift guide below.

How to figure out a decent Father’s Day Gift:

  • Start exploring what your father (or the father in your life) loves and enjoys. If it is the kind of activity that require a gadget, why don’t you look for that particular gadget ?
  • If you feel that he’s been wanting to change his phone for a very long time, maybe you could buy him something expensive and surprise him with a new phone.
  • Most fathers are tech-savvy and want to explore new gadgets every time. Well, why don’t you get him new speakers or EarPods for him to explore?
  • Comfy clothing is one thing that dads would definitely enjoy having. Getting him something comfortable would make him feel a lot more protected and warmer.
  • Think about the things according to his perspective. Look for the objects that he enjoys having. If he enjoys traveling, why don’t you book him a ticket for a tour where he can de-stress himself. Or you can get him some antique and vintage objects if he enjoys collecting vintage products.

Also, sometimes he does not really need any monetary help or any materialistic gift. Sometimes he wants you to have a little chat with you where he can tell you how proud he is of you. Give him that, it will be the greatest gift for him.

Still wondering what the best Father’s Day Gift is?

Well, don’t you worry because we have a few of the options for you?

Retro flip clock

Trust me, fathers love Retro clocks. This one can be the ideal gift for him to place on his nightstand, or he can keep it on his desk. Rather than checking the screen for the time, he can always check the time on the super bougie and classy retro clock.

Wireless meat thermometer

A wireless thermometer is great for anyone that enjoys cooking. It will keep his steaks perfectly cooked to his satisfaction. 

Beer cooler

If camping and traveling is something that the dad in your life likes, gift him this cooler so he can take it along while traveling. Get him this durable and high-quality beer cooler that will attract him a bit more towards traveling or enjoying his time at the beach. Tell him that it’s time to relax and he can take a few days off and enjoy the best time. 

Fire grill for cooking steaks

Again, if your father (or dad in your life) loves to cook, get him this fire grill for cooking steaks or vegetables. It will be a fun activity that he enjoys doing and also family friendly. 

Massage gun

Does he often tell you that he is feeling aches and pains in his body? Do you want him to feel relaxed and a little bit more comfortable? Get him the massage gun that has the heat option as well. It will be the perfect gift that your father will enjoy. It has great reviews and is widely used among athletes. 

Temperature control ceramic mug

Does the dad in your life enjoying tea and coffee? Do you see him reheating already making the coffee again and again if the temperature cools down? Well, in that case, why don’t you get him this temperature control ceramic mug? This is the perfect Father’s Day gift. This ceramic mug has temperature control properties and will always keep the tea or the coffee warm. It will not require you to heat your tea and coffee after every few minutes.

A good quality shaving kit

Nothing can beat a good quality premium shaving kit. It is a classic gift that never goes wrong. If you are planning to get something for your father, why don’t you get him a shaving kit of premium quality and a little bit extravagance? You can find hundreds of best-quality shaving kits on Amazon and various other websites. Get a premium quality shaving kit that your father enjoys using.

Smartwatch

Is your father a fitness enthusiast? Do you want your father to stay fit and regulate his running and keep a look at his heartbeat and other integrals? Well, getting him a fitness smartwatch will definitely be a great gift for him. Get him a high-quality fitness smartwatch that can regulate his sleep pattern and track his steps and gallery count as well.   

These are some of those gifts that are amazing options that you can get for your father. It is important that you evaluate which might be his preference. Once you understand what he wants, it will not be difficult to find the appropriate gift for him. Just make sure that you are getting him something worthy and not just any gift. Buying your father an excellent Father’s Day gift could really brighten his Father’s Day.