proxemics and the surprise attraction

Proxemics and The Surprised Attraction

Proxemics and The Surprised Attraction To Your Friend

BY PAUL CHAMBERS

We've all been there before. That moment when you have a really good friend and then out of nowhere you begin to find them surprisingly attractive. There is a word to describe it: Proxemics.

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The idea of proxemics is very real. The more time you spend with someone within your preference, the more you will become attracted to that person. So the thought begins to linger in your mind: Should we potentially ruin our friendship with trying to be more than friends? Should we give into temptation and become intimate with each other? Those questions among others are answered by the Thundercats on this week’s episode.

Also in this episode, P-Mac & He-Man discuss brutal honesty and how it may hurt your significant other in the moment, but how they will learn to respect you for it in the long run. Find out all of this and more on The Welcome 2 Forever Podcast Episode 63, “Jinkies”.

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Chambers Street Enterprises brings to you The Welcome 2 Forever Podcast featuring The Thundercats, Paul “P-Mac” Chambers (@MacsWorldCSE) and Starlen “He-Man” Roddy (@Thundercat254). Join the guys on this wild ride as they discuss everything in regards to relationships, sex and crazy life situations these two best friends have experienced along the way.

The Welcome 2 Forever Podcast is available on Soundcloud, Spotify and IHeart Radio. Also YouTube on Chambers Street TV.

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The Different Stages of Dating

BY PAUL CHAMBERS

Dating means different things to different people. Have you found yourself struggling to define exactly what stage of dating you are in?

The Different Stages of Dating

This week the Thundercats, P-Mac & He-Man, discuss the different stages of dating, signs to look for early on in a love interest, and exactly what someone’s true intentions are in regards to dating and relationships. Is it something casual? Have you both decided to cut off any other situations you may be holding onto? Are you both all in on each other and eager to see if there is a future? Check out The Welcome 2 Forever Podcast Episode 62, “The Show Must Go On” to gain some insight and clarity. 

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The Different Shapes of Vaginas/ Misogyny in Today’s Society 

In Episode 31 of Love and Lust, The Podcast, Ana Lefebvre and Camille Corbett discuss social issues such as Misogyny in Today’s Society.

Misogyny is the dislike of women, contempt of women, or prejudice against women. Just like systematic racism, misogyny has been going on for so long that many people spread it without a second thought.

Love and Lust, The Podcast, has a mission to highlight and bring attention to these social issues. Hopefully after listening to Episode 31 people can start to recognize when they are being misogynistic and news flash, women can be misogynistic too. 

Sexism occurs so vastly that everyone must be very aware of what misogyny is and how to stop it. I have found out that a lot of people are unconscious of their Misogynist behavior. Sweetie and Doja Cat came out with a song recently, called Best Friend, where they called out the “fake-woke” men that are actually misogynistic. If you are unaware if you are a misogynist please click here.

Also discussed in Episode 31 of Love and Lust is the different Shapes of Vaginas. To view what types of vaginas you might have seen (*wink *wink) click here.

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In this special episode of Love and Lust, Ana Lefebvre and her guest, Spiritual Healer Michelle, discuss Sex as a Spiritual Energy Exchange and Sexual Healing. Have you ever wondered why you might have mysteriously fell for someone in the romantic sense? Why someone has a hold on you that can not be explained with words? Listen to this Episode as Ana and Michelle discuss the power of being spiritually aligned to have the best bedroom life. 

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Top 4 Rules for the Casual Sex Relationship

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Top 4 Rules for the Casual Sex Relationship

Casual Sex- Sexual Activity Between Individuals That Are Not Committed to Each Other

By Ana Lefebvre

11-1-2020
Top 4 Rules for the Casual Sex Relationship

This topic was sparked during Love and Lust’s Episode 23 I do not believe anything you say After Sex. A Page From My F***Buddy Rule Book (Ft. Westside).

Make sure you listen to or watch the Love and Lust podcast about Casual Sex. If you have any questions, please e-mail Ana Lefebvre at itsanalefebvre@gmail.com.  

Prior to this Love and Lust Episode, I didn’t believe anything that is said after sex, but after this episode, I have changed my mind. I have changed the rule to the first 48. The first 24 before and then the 24 hours after a casual hookup, one-night stand/ two-night stand, situationship, entanglement, or just plainly – a casual sex relationship.

Now, this is with someone that you do not have any commitment to and have never talked about a future with or have discussed a future with and they have not confirmed that they want one with you. One of those stagnant casual sex situations that are clearly just a good time.

I think that sometimes we forget to enjoy the moments and we try to impose our ideas of a relationship on something that should be one of those situations of “it is what it is”. We look for more into something that we have not communicated that we want more with. Keep in mind, most relationships end. Not everyone is compatible or good for us.

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Here are my Top 4 Casual Sex Rules:

  1. You can not change someone; therefore, if they say they do not want anything that represents a commitment. Believe them. Now, if you can handle that, treat your situation as a casual sex relationship and do not push for more unless the person agrees to more.

2. Do not give relationship benefits to a casual sex relationship. You are giving this person too much of yourself and perhaps blocking your true match, by spending too much time with this person or putting too much energy into this casual sex engagement. Do not blur the lines. It is what it is.

3. Don’t believe the sweet nothings that are whispered in your ear when the person fails to commit to anything. This aligns with the topic of the first 48.

Now, I was asked if this applies to both males and females. I am heavy into communication. Why would something be acknowledged and said one time? I also express in other episodes of Love and Lust, that the bedroom is the room to relax and have fun. It shouldn’t be the place where you hold heavy conversations and discussions even if it is a casual hook-up.

4. Know when to end it.  The spark will eventually fade and it will be time to move on. Do not ghost the other person, but communicate when it’s time for you to move on. 

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  • The female libido depends on the individual. 
  • I have explained in previous podcasts that about 70% of women do not have an orgasm from sexual intercourse. My question to you, if you were used to not having an orgasm, would you always want sex?
  • Female Oral Sex is extremely important since this how most females reach an orgasm, but is seen as optional*.
  • There’s no female viagra (think about that).

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14 Tips for Female Oral Sex

Did you know most women only have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation- oral sex?

By Ana Lefebvre

07-10-2020
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Oral sex is important for both parties. Statistically, it is the best way for females to reach an orgasm.  Here are 14 tips to help with the female orgasm. 

  1. Try doing it the way you are comfortable with before adding anything.

  2. Communicate with your partner when stimulating them orally and with your hands. 

  3. Try different angles.

  4. Stroke across versus up and down. 

  5. Try stroking the sides of the clit and the clitoral hood.*

  6. Stimulate the area between the anus and vagina, if your partner is open to this.

  7. Try giving oral with her hips lifted (use a pillow).

  8. If anal play is liked, trying stimulating in doggy position. 

  9. Try vibrators.

  10. Try lubricants.

  11. Watch how she masturbates.* 

  12. Watch lesbian porn.*

  13. Tease

  14. If you care, don’t give up.

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The key is to communicate and to have fun with it. Both parties should enjoy it. Have fun exploring the female sexuality.

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Female Sexuality

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Female Sexuality

Sexuality- your attraction, behaviors, feelings and thoughts towards others, sexually.

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I wrote this podcast series because of the misconception about women’s sexuality.

I believe it is best to start at the very beginning to actually understand the cultural and economic circumstances that surround female sexuality measuring cup.

1. Female sexuality is culturally and economically related.

2. Females are traditionally supposed to make themselves desirable, but nothing more. If a woman is sexually forward, negative innuendo are often said about her. 

3. Society throws the fairytale view of romance to women and they often subconsciously use this as the romance measuring cup.

4. We as women, must change the current narrative of the female sexuality. 

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  • I have explained in previous podcasts that about 70% of women do not have an orgasm from sexual intercourse. My question to you, if you were used to not having an orgasm, would you always want sex?
  • Female Oral Sex is extremely important since this how most females reach an orgasm, but is seen as optional*.
  • There’s no female viagra (think about that).

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11 First Date Questions

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First Date Questions

Here’s 11 first date questions that will help that awkward first 20 minutes and hopefully ease you into a useful conversation. 

1. What was the highlight of your day?

You don’t have to ask it just like this, but asking a precise question can lead to more of a direct answer instead of an open ended questions like “How was your Day?”- which a shy person may just answer “Good” or “It was okay”.

2. Tell me about your closest friends?

This is a great questions that will open up the topic of family and friends.

3. Have you been to any good restaurants recently?

You can learn a bit about their lifestyle habits and what type of food that they might be into. 

4. Are you watching any good movies or TV shows?

If they don’t enjoy the Cinema or TV, you can ask the next question…

5. Are you more of an indoors or outdoors person?

Maybe the next date idea?

6. What pets have you had?

Pet’s are a big part of certain people lives. It’s important to learn about their furry best friend. 

7. Are you a morning person or a night owl?

Here you can tell a little about their lifestyle habits.

8. What did you do last summer?

Could lead to more questions about favorite places to vacation

9. What are people often surprised to learn about you?

A question that can lead to vulnerability and openness. 

10. What’s your favorite holiday?

You can tell if birthdays are important to them or family oriented holidays. 

11. What habit do you wish you could start?

This is a question that many people do not ask. May lead to a conversation about future goals and dreams.

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